Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail (GNB)
Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for
self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut,
Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't
always "me first", Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of
the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others
grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with
anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never
looks back, But keeps going to the end. (vv.4‑7 The Message)
Do I grumble about the problems and hardships of my life?
Do I accept that true love will always bring suffering? Am I prepared
to take up my cross daily and follow Christ? How do I try to face
doubts? Do I try to overcome my own bad habits? Do I lose hope when
it seems everyone is against me? Does my love for those close to me
overcome their unkindness, their weaknesses, their letting me down, their
failures? Is my love for those who hurt me such that I can forgive
them? Do I blame God for my sufferings and difficulties? Is my love
for God such that I can accept persecution for speaking out in his name?
Do I realise that to love another means to die to self? Do I accept
that there are three things that last: faith, hope and love, and that the
greatest of these is love?
(from a prayer letter - source unknown)
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