Just a thought
CHOICE
Isaiah, describing Israel's hypocrisy, speaks for God, "These have chosen their own ways and their soul delights in their abominations; I also will choose affliction for them and bring their fears upon them." (Isaiah 66. 3,4)
Jesus confronted the disciples with the question "Do you also wish to go away?" and Peter immediately asked "Lord to whom shall we go?". Did those who went away chose to do so? And what of Jesus' choice of Judas? (John 6.66-71)
Did believers choose to join the early Church? Luke describes its growth
".. the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved" (Acts 2.47 ‑ see also Acts 13.48). Paul writing to the Ephesians (1.4-11) says that "he chose us in him before the foundation of the world. It's an interesting passage. Is being "led by the Spirit" evidence of personal choice? (Rom 8.14)
Is decision making part of our spiritual growth? What are the criteria for making such decisions? What prompted us first 'to make a decision for Christ'?
Jesus said "Many are called but few are chosen" and also said "He who comes to me I will in no way cast out"; He invites us ‑ "Come unto me all you who are weary and heavy laden."
Is coming to Christ the same as the Good Shepherd looking for lost sheep? Those who have a 'good' Christian up-bringing are still 'lost'. We are all descendants of Adam and are therefore sinners. It is clear that some hear the Shepherd's voice at a very early age and are drawn to Him. We are all very different in our mental and emotional development and none can demand that others do or do not accept Jesus as Saviour from sin and begin to follow Him. The decision to become a follower of the Lord Jesus, at whatever age, is made on the basis of a need and Jesus is able to meet that need. Christians do not join a club or society that demands certain skills or attainment ‑ nor do they need to pass a test or examination ‑ their only requirements are that they will walk with the Lord and in doing so, become like Him. It is more a matter of mutual attraction than 'choosing'.
From the time we come into Christ all our decisions should be made by one criteria ‑ is what I am about to do or say (or think) pleasing to Him. Decisions must be made on the basis of real heart to heart conversation with the Lord. The more we become aware of our Master's communication the easier (less painful) the decisions become. As with our earthly spouse, our only desire is to please Him ‑ to cause Him no pain.
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